How many times have you heard women complaining about things that men do that women would never do, because the men would be upset if they did the same thang? So the question is, why is it o.k. for the woman to do things that she knows will bother the man???? Well, its clear 2 me that the women have double standards that will benefit them as well.
It seems like a whole lot of women completely overlook the fact that they do things 2 men and get away with things that they would have a serious issue with if the shoe was on the other foot!! In fact, many women put a lot more weight into the "what if" aspect of a situation instead of paying attention to how much of an impact it really has on them or the relationship. If men didn't have control of our/their emotions and reacted without thinking, spent time planning and plotting oh how to do things to intentionally hut y'all or teach y'all a lesson, constantly violated y'alls privacy and trust or searched for things that have had no direct impact on the relationship to make a big deal out of y'all would have a serious issues with our actions--Wouldn't you? But since y'all are women, I guess that makes it o.k. to do these things to men and not expect it back.
It has been found that women have a major tendency 2 overthink and focus energy on things that they have no control over and have no direct impact on their relationships. Worrying about what he thinks/fantasizes about or what he talk about with his friends on the phone, is not really going to make your relationship any better! I feel if women could step back and realize how a lot of things y'all do is negatively impacting your relationships that you all claim to care about so much!
I realize that men are not perfect and they are quite a few of us out here are making it look bad for the majority of good dudes, but that doesn't mean the remainder of us are like that (we can and often times do change and evolve). Once a man finds a good woman, they can become a powerful team. Did you know 1st marriages in the united states end in divorce 50% of the time and 2nd marriages end in divorce 60% of the time? Also, couples that date to long before marriage have the fastest record of divorce. They show that they don't have the commitment level to you and that it maybe someone else other better than you. So I guess if double standards come in to play here......well lets just say "Let me know how that works out for you".
So men and women have relationship killers in their love lives but it would behoove us all to become self aware before we find our selves cuddling up with a good book on a Friday night instead of out watching Ride along 2 ...................with our sweet pea....
I am Ward....
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