Winning thru your actions is always the preferred act of control, at least from a logical stand point. When it comes to relationships there are few things that can sink it faster than the age of “Ultimatum”, don’t act like I am the only person who was ever given one either. I think the most common ultimatum is marry me or we can be friends with benefits no more. Really, it’s a form of control when you think about it. Peep game, the person who is doing the action/s that seems to cause the other half of the relationship so much stress, is cool with doing it their way. ITS YOU SUCKA, who has issues or want a change.
The question now, is why are you flipping the script now? Next, since you are obviously fed up with the case, you have to force the hand of the other person, and of course try to take away what you feel will hurt them most. DA SEX! I guess people who employ this tactic don’t realize that the other person you are trying fix/change will just find another source to fill the void, then you will get mad and end up looking STUUUPIDDDD…. ( not a good look by the way pimp N)
How about this simple solution. If you want to make your point, try not to forecast your future actions. For example, when you decide you are going to leave your hated job, do you run and tell your boss that you are looking for a job TODAY and as soon as your prayers are answered you are outta this peace? I think not, so why you gotta sell all them wolf tickets about what you are gonna do 2 your mate. Just let your actions speak and they will get the point when they get the point, Get my point sucker? I know that is a lot to swallow, but it true.
I am Ward….
No comments:
Post a Comment