Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Why is it so hard 2 gett over your crazy EX????
The question of the week. Well here is your answer, it is soooo hard for you to get over your ex because you are too caught up in the past and “what used to be”. It’s just that simple, right?
Of course not silly person, relationships are never that easy. At least you realized that it’s hard for you to get over him/her, that’s the first step. Now say “My name is (insert name) and I’m a exaholic”, hahahhaa just kidding.
At this point you need to forget all good times because if that’s all you remember, that’s all you’re gonna want. Remembering your first date and what you two did on on that Cedar point trip or the first meeting at the Dairy Queen is not gonna help your situation. You have to cut off all ties meaning no calls, no texts, no hookups and do not, I repeat do not keep any of his/her belongings. Never go and try to get your belongings back. That can only cause trouble, either an argument or a hook up and at that point it’s like choosing between getting beat up or shot. No good outcome possible. Next , just hang out with your friends and move on. Go to the hall and have some you time then when you are ready and try to meet someone new, actually meet a couple new people but stay in groups to prevent bad thangs from happening.
If this person ever pops up in your life again, just remember all the bad times; that will definitely buy you a ticket on the plane to getting over your ex, first class to be exact. Lastly, remember that this person was once your best friend, was always there, and knows everything about you soooo of course getting over him/her is hard but not impossible. Other wise you can always stay with your ex and hope that the old saying of doing the same old thing and expecting something different to happen is LUDICROUS- Never mind its true, just make a move and be prepared for what may come....
I am Ward
Monday, August 20, 2012
Win thru your actions...never by arguments.....
Winning thru your actions is always the preferred act of control, at least from a logical stand point. When it comes to relationships there are few things that can sink it faster than the age of “Ultimatum”, don’t act like I am the only person who was ever given one either. I think the most common ultimatum is marry me or we can be friends with benefits no more. Really, it’s a form of control when you think about it. Peep game, the person who is doing the action/s that seems to cause the other half of the relationship so much stress, is cool with doing it their way. ITS YOU SUCKA, who has issues or want a change.
The question now, is why are you flipping the script now? Next, since you are obviously fed up with the case, you have to force the hand of the other person, and of course try to take away what you feel will hurt them most. DA SEX! I guess people who employ this tactic don’t realize that the other person you are trying fix/change will just find another source to fill the void, then you will get mad and end up looking STUUUPIDDDD…. ( not a good look by the way pimp N)
How about this simple solution. If you want to make your point, try not to forecast your future actions. For example, when you decide you are going to leave your hated job, do you run and tell your boss that you are looking for a job TODAY and as soon as your prayers are answered you are outta this peace? I think not, so why you gotta sell all them wolf tickets about what you are gonna do 2 your mate. Just let your actions speak and they will get the point when they get the point, Get my point sucker? I know that is a lot to swallow, but it true.
I am Ward….
The question now, is why are you flipping the script now? Next, since you are obviously fed up with the case, you have to force the hand of the other person, and of course try to take away what you feel will hurt them most. DA SEX! I guess people who employ this tactic don’t realize that the other person you are trying fix/change will just find another source to fill the void, then you will get mad and end up looking STUUUPIDDDD…. ( not a good look by the way pimp N)
How about this simple solution. If you want to make your point, try not to forecast your future actions. For example, when you decide you are going to leave your hated job, do you run and tell your boss that you are looking for a job TODAY and as soon as your prayers are answered you are outta this peace? I think not, so why you gotta sell all them wolf tickets about what you are gonna do 2 your mate. Just let your actions speak and they will get the point when they get the point, Get my point sucker? I know that is a lot to swallow, but it true.
I am Ward….
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Darn expen$$$$ive state fair
I went to the fair today and dang near went in debt. I had to pay $1 a head to ride the freaking tractor around the park, it use to be free. Oh it cost $10 per person to enter, but I got free tickets at the last minute as I was walking to the gate. I had to pay $5 to park, but I found a spot on the street and walked back 50 blocks! $3 for sweet tea---nope I went to McDonalds for a buck suckers. I rode rides and didn't show tickets twice and got over. Looks like I didn't do to bad after all, but it required to much brain juice to get over on the man getting over on the people......
I am Ward....
Making lemons outta lemonaide
Thursday, August 16, 2012
One of the greatest men who ever lived.....
It pains me to know that one of the greatest men is gone. He not only proved that a Hyundai could actually reach speeds in access of 100 mph, but he showed that Kunta Kentae wasn't the only man who could take a beating! He was a role model to ummm somebody, I am sure who! (maybe not?)Here is to Rodney da King!
I am Ward....
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Wait a minute......
I over heard some women talking today about loosing weight. The one sista told the other girl that she could stand to loose 30-40 pounds and all of a sudden.... world war 3 broke the freak out! I mean the sister was a tad plump, but dang to flip out like that????? I guess looking from a guy's perspective, the truth isssss logic. If I am fat and my boy calls me on that I would be like cool. Then hit the gym and do something about it. So, anyway* I find myself wondering why do "SOME" women feel the need to find comfort in food. I can't even remember the millions of show portraying women eating the chunky monkey Ice cream crying over some dude-lol! I am not trying to fool myself into thinking that men and women's body are not composed differently. Women retain more body fat than men because of the child bearing factor-right?
I guess what makes it better is doing the work needed to look how you want to. No one made certain people fat because last I checked all babies are born around the same body weight and then we take it from there with our lifestyle choices.
I think I am gonna think about this topic and see what I find out tomorrow....
I am Ward....
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
Reasons some people leave their jobzzzz.
I can't lie, I worked a job that I really enjoyed but wasn't even happy @. My coworkers were/are great and full stories. I just couldn't rap my mind around the other non-essential things that made the job less than enjoyable. I guess for others some reasons to leave could be these.....
* Management doesn't have or take the time to clarify goals and decisions. Therefore, it rejects work after it was completed, damaging the morale and esteem of those who prepared it.
* Management shows favoritism and gives some workers training exposure and events to attend while others stay back at the site.
*Management relocates the offices to another location, forcing employees to quit or double their commute.
* (My favorite) Management promotes someone who lacks training and/or necessary experience to supervisor, alienating staff and driving away good employees.
* Management creates a rigid structure and then allows departments to compete against each other while at the same time preaching teamwork and cooperation, like dangling a promotion that you already know who is going to get it.
I am ward (and yes I quit)
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