Thursday, January 7, 2010

I hope he doesn't want me just 4 my body???


I was talking to my home girl 2day and she told me something that just blew my mind! She told me that she likes this certain guy but doesn't want him to want him to want her just for her body???? What the fudge is tha all about? Does she not know that we men folk are visual creatures? Of course we want your bodies silly girl, we got eyes and a brain that is wired to go kew kew for girl co-puffs!
Lets look at situation from a males perspective. We are walking down the street and out the left corner of our eye we notice a dyme piece with some painted on jeans, a tee shirt that says boy toy, some matching Nike shocks and a fresh perm. I mean she looking so good that other women are doing a double take.(Women wonder why we looking at yall after all this work you put in) Well the helpless brotha's hormone immediately shift into over drive as he makes his way on over to her side of the skreet to say his quickly thought of line. Let's just pretend he says to the honey, "Excuse me Miss, but I lost my phone number, can I have yours". She may laugh or find him korny, either way the dude made his move because he wanted her goods!
Its a true fact that men will use love to get sex and women will use sex to get love! Crazy right, but its sooo true.
Now, back 2 my home girl, what she has to realize that the body attracts but the mind will retain the relationship. They work together suckers. I guess its similar to a man having madd $$$ and the ability to treat you like a queen, its a good thing right?
Here are some of the things that women do to let us men folk that yall are into us!
1) Yall text or contact during the day just to let us know we are thought of
2) You keep good eye contact because ur interested in what we are saying
3) Safe touching in public shows you are comfortable with us
4) You have things to say and not afraid to disagree in a loving way
5) When we fight, yall don't run, but work to resolve it quickly
6) U Show us a syde of yall no one else gets 2 see, your bad singing and bad jokes
7) Goodbyes R special! You hold us tighter and kisses us more passionately
8) When we walk in a room where you "B" and you light up and give us full attention

Yeah most simple men wont ketch these clues and will eventually jack the relationship us. Its not cuz (we/they) no longer want your body, (they/we) just need to be communicated to about your needs in a language that we understand. Simple rules and great rewards.....
I am Ward....

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