Is there a double standard when it comes to dating? History would undoubtedly scream heck to the yeah!!! Women have long since been chased by men only to take advantage of us. We arrive on time, while U take another 43 minutes to get ready. We meet your creepy unshaven father and moo-moo wearing mother with the big pink rollers in her hair and get humped on by your dog in the mean time. We can dig it, cuz it's a small possibility that you might be worth the wait. So finally you (the woman) come down the stairs looking like a super star. As we (the Man) start to smile and thinking to ourselves that this is gonna be an alright date.
Next as the couple is rolling in the car, they agree on a radio station and make small talk as they head toward the restaurant. They end up at a nice first date food joint like the Cheese Cake Factory or Webber Grill and the woman starts ordering errry thing good, like she is the Queen of the freaking Ghetto. No problem because it's expected that the dude is suppose to pay-right? I think WRONG is an more appropriate answer. Last time Wardy checked- we are in the middle of an recession and men gotz to watch every coin we got or join the ranks of the homeless or broke folk we see around town-lol!
Seriously, it is a trend out there that the man is suppose to pay for the date when ever the couple goes out on the town! I mean its almost expected. I personally had a date once when the young lady ((asked me out)) and then expected me to pay-(what the freak)... I was cool with it. I just smoothly went to the restroom and then to my car where I texted her phone and said I had a wonderful evening and hoped to see her later in the week. I knew she wouldn't call again plus she didn't have a purse with her-lol!
I wonder would women think it would be wrong if the man expected booty every time they went out? I mean after all he paid for everything? I am not saying this is how I feel, but its just a thought. Perhaps going Dutch is a great way to start a friendship and then if you like the other person's company, pay then! I guess women are more important than men are in the new relationship because she is the woman???? I think women really feel yall have the upper hand- but only when it comes to them weak sex thirsty brothers. Personally if I am not happy in the situation, I won't argue or fight, I am just gonna get ghost on that butt, as all men should do.
Willy (friend) told me that this young woman said to him that she don't pay on dates because she is an old fashioned woman. Willy told her that o.k. with him cause he is an old fashioned man who prefers home cooked meals anyway-lol!
In this writers opinion, it is better to establish the rules up front with no pretensions from both parties: then decide where or if the date is going to continue. For example, if a woman tells a man up front that ain't nothing going down and he is in the friend zone don't get mad if he leaves out of Ruth Chris's parking lot and makes a B-line to white castle's and then suggest that yall both go Dutch!!! Its only fair-right! Proably not to the woman cause that is not what yall use too! Its 2 many games being played in the dating game right about now.
Ladies get out that man's pocket and quit leading him on. Final Fact: Women use sex to get love from men and Men use love to get sex from a women....
I am WaRd....
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I think most men and women are led to believe that Chivalry means: to wine and dine a woman. If asking, I feel this should be the case. But I also wouldn't have a problem with a woman returning the favor. Often.
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