Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Beeee 4 N after


I was sitting in my room and thought about something I heard a few days ago by a female co-worker (yeah I have a real job). I noticed that my co-worker had a new hair cut and dye job. I was not going to acknowledge that I was aware of something different, but going against my better judgement, I said......"ahh a new look huh?" She went on to say that her husband did not say anything about it and she was ticked off by that fact. I asked if she told him that she was getting a new look and she said she did not have to because he walks through a crowded room and can tell her what everybody in the room was wearing and talking about, but he doesn't even notice his own wife!!!!
I thought to myself, why did you get your hair done in the first place. I would assume the answer was because you wanted a change and after giving it thought, you placed a call to the beautician, then drove to the appointment, waited for ever long it took, then looked at your reflection in the mirror and then came home for the set up move on your innocent unsuspecting man. When you didn't get the reaction you expected, he is not the blame for yet another problem that he did not see coming. Humm and women wonder why men clam up. Would it have been so hard to tell the dude up front that you was thinking about a new dooo and wanted to know his thoughts. Then we she returned she may have gotten that "wow you look great lie that we all must tell"--lol!
I know women think men should only think about you all day, but have you ever realized (not wondered) that we men folk see beautiful women all day from t.v. and the work place on the daily? If you want to impress us, try asking us what we like and her comes the tricky thang..........do what we ask......OMG it just might actually work. Don't get it twisted we can do the same thing for you too, but the key is knowing what you want suckers.......

I am the same hair styling Ward...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I personally think a man should think about his woman all day....AND I would be pissed if my man notice other women and tell me about it .....and does not notice my new hair do....I definitely don't agree I need to tall my man I am getting a new do...HE IS SUPPOSED TO NOTICE. I am tired of men making excuses for being LAME.

Anonymous said...

Obviously you never heard of communication being the life blood of healthy relationships? You can someone all their life, but you will never be a mind reader. Stop playing kid games and be an adult that talks to her man, not expects him to think the world revolves around her selfish @%@!!!!

Men have feelings too!

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