Three sydes 2 the truth

O.k party people, this one is about relationships! I will start by stating the obvious- Men and Women tend to view things differently at times. Not better or worse than the other, just different. With that being said I think I have just saved myself a million opinionated emails about relationships!
What i wanted to discuss is, if what was said is what you "really" heard. I have learned that communication involves more than just words. It is about your tone, body language and of course the words. Think about it, most fights start out with someone looking at someone else sydeways and then the rest ensues. Its no different with dealing with the opposite sex!
Sometimes women don't know exactly what they want or how to always get there but they will know when they know. A man will find that reasoning dang near mind boggling. Inside a man's wallet you may find some paper money, credit cards and a drivers license. Inside a women's purse you may find, a mirror, tissue, dental floss, tampons, ink pens, money, breath mints, scrap paper, lip stick etc... So at times a woman may not be totally aware of what is in the purse until she dumps it all out and sifts through it and finds what she wanted, even if she didn't know what that was from the jump. Back to the man, he gets in and out (that has double meaning).
To keep this blog simple, I sum it up like this. Just because someone says one thing and may mean another, let us not call them a liar, lets just give them the benefit and respect as having a unique perspective that we can appreciate. Your side, their syde and the truth... What did you expect me to say in this, lol...

i aM wARd..

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I love You!

Copy right infrigment

Today I am very excited! I was reviewing comments that occasional readers of my blog leave me. Well, one such comment was from a Dilweed who actually took one of the photos that I posted on a previous blog. Peep this, he actually demanded that I remove the picture immediately. After I stopped laughing, I began to think, what if Mr. Dilweed is a psycho 4 real?

For example, what if he and a couple of his photographer buddies come looking for me!!!!! Would they beat me down with their expensive Nikon cameras, would they take a million photos of me until I am blinded by their bright flash devices or would they just mistake me for a super model and try and temp with fattening foods? I think I better remove that copyrighted photo right now........................................NOT!

This is what I told Mr. Dilweed...... GET A LIFE--BUY A NEEDY PUPPY-- VOLUNTEER AT A HOMELESS SHELTER-- RUN A 5K-- TRY DATING WOMEN FOR A CHANGE-----AND THE BIG ONE------STOP READING MY BLOG LOOOOSER, THIS SITE IS INTENDED FOR MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY....Don't get it twisted, I respect an artist work, but it I am not trying to make money of his work, perhaps their are deeper issues that only Dr. Phil can assist with. Besides the greatest compliment you can give a person is imitation! (The pic is nice)

Now that I have got that off my chest, yall check back later for some real talk.....

( I bet he is still reading this) I aM warD

Back to work already..

Hey the week end is up and its time for everybody to return to work. Well, I took off an extra day, So I don't have to be back until Wednesday. I have few things I want to get caught up on. I want to do some painting, some repairs and catch that Indiana Jones Movie. I am almost tired thinking about it and its still Monday!!!

Life is full of surprises. So be prepared for the unexpected and do what makes the situation right. Have a super week...
I am {{WARD}}

Chicago.......back home

Yes we all have a long week-end because it is the start of summer. A time for higher gas prices, increased visits to the emergency room, risky behaviors and time to get your travel on.

Me and my two girls, Kobe age- 8 and Kierra age- 6, went to Chicago 4 the week-end. Our plan was to attend Shedd aquarium but my Cousin Marie told me she could get your boy in for free on a later date. I quickly curbed them plans cause it cost $25 bones per person to get in. We paid the $15 to park and jumped on the free trolley car and went around the whole city. It was fun and something new. I met an older lady from New York who sat by me and we talked about the differences from her city and Chicago. It was nice to meet a new friend.

One thing I noticed was all the foreign people on the trolley and the foods they had. Man that trolley smelled like dirty floor mat and nursing home patient butt. Yuck! That trolley did not move until it was standing room only. Then this crazy looking man sat his daughter by me and he was staring at me like I was a child molester. When a new chair opened up he called his "Sophie" to sit by him and she said no!! I was like what the heck....I was thinking to myself "please move before I have to catch a case dealing with you crazy daddy".

I saw the beautiful lake, (it was freezing) I saw a wedding taking place, a man getting beat down in the park by cops, I saw a homeless man taking a poop in the alley, and saw all my family. It was the worst of times, yet the best of times for real, lol.

I missed my bed because hotel bed have that-somebody has been having sex on me and it wasn't you- feel to it. I couldn't wait to get home. I spent about $100 on gas, what a bummer. But the best part of the trip was going to the all you can eat soul food spot. It cost $18 per head. I was skeptical...... at first. Mannn that food was County Kitchen to the tenth power!!! They had it all, I mean greens, yams, peach and apple cobbler, ribs, catfish, corn on the cobs,dressing, sweet cornbread, kool-aide,red beans and rice.... well you get the point. I was upset because I wasn't ready for that. I couldn't hurt them like I will next month. I am in training to go back. I am on a temporary hunger strike. I will eat 14 pounds. Yall pray for me....I am ready to enter into the (K)jungle, lol!

eYe aM WArd....

Push dat man away

Do you know of a female who really wants to be in relationship because she has been single for far to long. What about the woman who is has a man who is not committed to her but she still considers it a relationship? The list goes on to the break of dawn, but I only have 15 minutes for this topic.
I ran across this situation where a woman wants this dude- who told her what the deal is up front. He just wants to keep it breezee and nothing serious. Ole girl was cool with it until her feelings got deep, now she wants to flip the script. How do you see this situation turning out? Well I think after "ALL" of her girlfriends and trusted family members have been consulted on the situation -the only advice accepted *that will be considered is from the options that match what she already thinks/wants to do!>>> That the guy MUST have changed his mind!! Now keep in mind the guy has previously told her the situation up front and is very capable of expressing his thoughts and ideas and has thus far *not said he wants a relationship!!
So the dilemma somehow is** does he want an exclusive "US" situation. Readers, I refuse to touch this one cause they say love is blind at times, but I say Love needs a seeing eye dawg!!! My point is this, if you press somebody on something they have clearly outlined, then you may just be alone again. Then you can sit back and wonder what had happen was...... I think I pushed dat man away!