1}. Describe what you want to have in your marriage?
Simply begin by seeing yourself where you want to be in your marriage. If you can't imagine it, then it presumably will not happen, its totally up to you!
2}. What would it take for him/her to be satisfied with you?
Some people look better coming, while others look better just going far-far-far away (Out by Shreks house in the forest-lol). If you find your self in endless arguments about things that younger kids wouldn't not even debate over, you may not be satisfying your mate.
3}. If your marriage were really good tomorrow, how would you know?
Could it be the things you have been asking them to do for years and now they finally heard you? Did you guys have a great time at an event? Do you really love each other????
4}. What do you want for your marriage and what are you willing to do to get there?
Consider going to the airport and asking for a ticket. The attendant will ask where would you like to go? If you don't know where you want to go, chances are pretty good that they won't know either? We ask our selves the tough questions and find the answers. Easier said than done!
5}. If Wardy were to ask you these questions....How would you answer?????
A). What are you DOING to mess up your marriage?
B). How do you show your mate that you love him/her daily?
C). What does you mate like most about you and you like most about them?
6}. What are you needs and is your spouse aware of them?
*A Wife tends to find her husband irresistible when he:
1). Learns to create an environment of affection that clearly and repeatedly expresses his love 4 her.
2). Sets aside time every day just to talk to her with undivided attention and interest.
3). Is completely honest and open with her
4). Provides financial support for her
5). Helps her develope a strong relationship with Jehovah God
* A Husband tends to find his wife irresistible when she:
1). When she is submissive to him and willingly follows his headship/love what he loves!
2). Maintains overall appearance in a way that he finds physically attractive (hair/clothes/workout.)
3). Understand and appreciates him more than anyone else in the world #respect
4). Manages household responsibility well (cooking-bills-decorating-frugal with funds)
5). She allows the mind of Christ to mold her in a beautiful woman (Proverbs Chapter 31)
We face two life choices: A). Move or B). Be moved!
I am WarD........
