If you want to win the right man's heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man love and cherish you then listen up suckers, I'm going to take you inside a man's mind you so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection. And I'm talking about a real man — one who is mature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level.
1). Men love to be active and enjoy sports. We were raised to express ourselves and connect with those around us through action. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into a man's heart. Some men don't go for that, especially in the 2016!
It's not your words that make a man attracted to you; it's the experiences you create with him. Watch or play sports together, be competitive in casual games like ping pong, and even add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there. The key is enjoying each other, without being competitors- because men tend to want to WIN at completion lol!
2). Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a "weaker" woman who will make them feel like they're smarter and more powerful. We already know we are smarter than yall-lol! Real men want a woman who inspires them because she has great things going on her own life. We want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship and getting fat!
Great guyz are not intimidated by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she's with him. The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenly make him your world. Don't drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with us unless its mutual.
3). A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she's feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her, will be attractive to a us! How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things we men look for when deciding whether or not to get serious with a woman.
If she lets her emotions get out of control, this is a big red flag 4 reeelz. On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win our respect and make us feel like she's the kind of woman who will be a real partner. Dudes will see that she can handle things with a cool head rather than become a damsel in distress he has to rescue. Captain Save Em is dead!
4). Men aren't as scared of commitment and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there's no passion and attraction. A common way women accidentally kill the attraction men might be feeling is by either trying too hard to get him to like you, or by being a nagging detective, wanting to know his every move while thinking that he should do or think everything that you would do. If men thought like women.......nevermind-lol!
Make sure you do and say things that interject fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. There's nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun without trying to be his mother! You can do this through great conversations (read or learn something and share with him), becoming spiritual and displaying those qualities while putting God first in your life. Also, be a good listener and a person who can follow the path your dude has outlined for your union with him (He is the head of the house-right)
I am Ward......
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