According to Couple and Family counselor Dr. John Gottman, a true expert in this field, 69% of couple conflicts are never solved. Yes, 69%!
That means that we are often having the same fight over and over again!!!!! Amazing but it so true. I know what each couple should do, but i found some reasons to consider if you want to leave or stay with your partner. ( If married, you stuck unless fornication is a factor sucka)
- You have more confusion than clarity. Time should bring important insights into your relationship, so it’s a red flag if you are more confused now than in the beginning.
- Your desire for “space” is increasing. Everyone needs individual time—that’s normal and natural. But if “me time” has become much more appealing than “us time,” consider this a clear warning sign.
- You work hard to improve the relationship, but the other person is not making the same effort. A healthy union needs two people who both carry their weight and invest equally in the partnership.
- One person is clingy and dependent. Few relationships are able to survive extreme jealousy, possessiveness, over dependence, or controlling behavior. Such actions and attitudes indicate that one or both people lack a solid emotional foundation.
- You don’t feel like you can be “completely yourself” with this person. Trying to change or conceal your true self is a big tip that this isn’t a good match.
- As you look ahead, the vision of your future together is fuzzy. You should be able to envision your relationship five, ten, twenty years ahead with joy and clarity.
I am WarD....
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