I'M just saying......

I recall when I was a kid, people use to always say how they wish they knew then what they know now. It seems we all have been there, done that and got the freaking t-shirt. The thing that has got me thinking today is about advice from friends. Do we have to take our friends advice or is it just Wardz of wisdumb that we should take with a grain of salt? I personally feel that regardless of reality, we as people R usually going to do what  they feel is right for themselves no matter what the cost. I watched a guy on some show snort bath salts for 30 minutes as he admitted he it was killing him. Dude was going against logic, family and friends, because "He Grown". Like I said, the real issue is "Are you suppose take advice, even if its the right thing to do?"
Most of my friends have someone to lean on and confide in,but the ironic thing about "over-sharing" with others, is that they feel like you do with out ever getting to hear "I am sorry from the offender". The friend just knows how you got hurt, how you were broken and how they were by your side when the offender did what they felt was right. I don't know if men or women lie more than the other, but one thing I do know is that when someone gets hurt in love and we reach out to our friends, you should know that to the friend helping you has views based off non-emotional logic.  It appears the offender has perfected the "art" of lying to himself in order to justify his behavior, but maybe U ain't ready for this jelly. I.E, see bridezilla boot camp (Porsha).
My point is not to brow beat someone for avoiding advice, rather to encourage all of us to realize life is to short to be wasted. If something is broke, it ain't you job to fix it! If your not appreciated -find someone who will! If you have issues with your job, then complain to the people who can make a difference. So again, wardy suggests taking your issues to the issuer, not the friend who is really down for you because in the end you are gonna follow your heart and not your friends (The Bible says don't follow your emotional heart, use your Bible trained mind) advice. I, as a high school student, tried to help my boy who got in a fight with his high school sweetheart and her 7 sisters. Spent the whole freaking night with him and trying to be there for him. Next day I go to his house and there he is sitting there with Super Psycho girl that almost got him arrested!! I said from that moment moving forward, I am gonna being a listener and not a saver of relationships. Heck, she don't wonna be saved!
BTW, my boy ended up having two kids by that girl, the kids hate him and don't speak to him, the girl he stayed with for 3 years tried to kill him later on in life and he finally said he knew the situation was wrong, but he was afraid of being alone so he stayed and wasted his life!!!! Like I stated, I just have a wait and see view  point in 2013. Here is to watching you suckers.....

Eye Be Ward....