Hello

Sometimes it just nice to smile and say Hello to someone. I tried it a few times today and it felt pretty darn good. I am unsure if this would work in New York-lol? My advice today is be nice....it contagious.

I am Ward

The long and Short of hair length REAL men Perfer.......

What length hair do men Prefer on THEY WOMAN??????
The question was debated between a few friends at the job recently! Seemed like it was a no win situation since I work with a majority of females-lol! But here is what I knew but didn’t say during the lively debate…..

Recently a poll was done by researchers that concluded that men prefer women with long hair. This has been an age old question since the beginning of time. Do men prefer women with long hair, and why? Well we now have the answer to that question according to me-T.A. Ward….. Although this doesn’t reflect the opinion of every man, it represents the majority.

When you ask a man what length of hair he prefers on women, 9 times out of 10 he will say long. This question was asked on by me for the purpose of my relationship book and because I was just curious!! And nearly all the men asked, responded yes, they prefer long hair on women. But also that it depended on the individual woman’s face shape and features. Not everything looks the good on everybody. Some women don’t look good in long hair, and some don’t look good in short. I think Halle Berry is finer than frog hair, but I wouldn’t be interested in dating her if she would be half way interested in dating a skinny dude like me anyway. Its just not my preference. Now Selma Hayek is a different story-lol!

In one poll I conducted at Indiana Univesity, a survey of 3,000 men, and 43% of the men polled preferred long hair. The celebrities that they thought were sexy: Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Lopez, Gwyneth Paltrow and Rihanna. 80 percent of the men said they definitely notice if a woman changes her hair, while 18 percent said they rarely notice when a woman changes her hair. They also indicated that they like shiny, touchable hair without a lot of styling products. They like to run their fingers through it.

Why do men prefer long hair on women?

All the men who answered yes to the question, said they prefer a woman to have long hair because it sexy. There’s just something about long flowing curly or wavy hair that they consider incredibly attractive. Like a reminiscence of the paintings of the Victorian era, women with long dresses and beautiful hair are very alluring. They equate long hair with being very feminine.

And guys love it when you use a certain type of shampoo, because on long hair it is more likely that they will be close enough to smell that scent. Some men like the smell of coconut, or other fruity scents in shampoo, or even ones that smell more like perfume. When your hair is down, they can nuzzle your neck and smell your hair at the same time. That’s harder to do with shorter hair.

We men folk also like to touch da hair, feel it and play with it. And they like to pull it. Not like when we were in grade school and they pulled on our pigtails. But grown up play definitely includes a little hair tugging. Or grabbing a handful while pulling you in for a passionate kiss. Men love long hair on women, it’s just a fact!

And wearing your hair pulled up into a loose bun with a little hair out at the nape of the neck, is incredibly sexy. Men love it when your hair is down and covering your neck cuz it’s like a gift waiting to be unwrapped. Gurl-You know it’s true! (In my mille-vanillee voice)…..

A woman’s hair is considered her “crowning glory” according to the bible. This is not to suggest that you shouldn’t wear your hair short, but meaning that this is a woman’s most alluring feature in my opinion. Just as important as a pretty face, nice hair complements you as well. Whether it is long or short, you should wear it in a stylish and flattering manner. Some women have features that go along with short pixie styles, and other women look better with it long. It’s really a matter of what looks good on the individual. Always go with what looks good on you, not what any body else says you should do. Ultimately looking your very best should be what’s important anyway, which is my 2nd point. I am just trying to establish the fact or preference not a hard and fast rule for everybody-Geeeesh!

I know there will be many who totally miss my point on this blog but that’s just means your hair is short! I think some men may be found to be more attractive with long wavy hair. I remember growing up watching all the men with Afros the size of the moon. Too bad that dang Jeri Curl was invented. We got stains on my grand mothers house that we still can’t get out since 1972!

Final Fact(((THE HAIR WEAVE AND EXTENSION BUSINESS NETS 1 TRILLION BUCKS PER YEAR)))

I am Ward……..


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Questions Ward had to ask????

Why do you need a driver's license to buy liquor in America when you can't drink and drive?

Why isn't phonetic spelled the way it sounds?

Why are there interstate highways in Hawaii?

Why are there flotation devices under plane seats instead of parachutes?

Why are cigarettes sold in gas stations when smoking is prohibited there?

Do you need a silencer if you are going to shoot a mime?

Have you ever imagined a world with no hypothetical situations?

How does the guy who drives the snowplow get to work in the mornings?

If 7-11 is open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, why are there locks on the doors?

If a cow laughed, would milk come out her nose?

If nothing ever sticks to TEFLON, how do they make TEFLON to stick to the pan?

If you tied buttered toast to the back of a cat and dropped it from a height, what would happen?

If you're in a vehicle going the speed of light, what happens when you turn on the headlights?

You know how most packages say "Open here". What is the protocol if the package says, "Open somewhere else"?

Why do they put Braille dots on the keypad of the drive-up ATM?

Why do Americans drive on parkways and park on driveways?

Why is it that when you transport something by car, it's called a shipment, but when you transport something by ship, it's called cargo?

You know that little indestructible black box that is used on planes, why can't they make the whole plane out of the same substance?

Why is it that when you're driving and looking for an address, you turn down the volume on the radio?

Why does your nose run and your feet smell?

Why do American always call for the cheque, and then give one back to the waitress?

I am Ward.....

Malcolm told me to told yall this.....

I'm for truth, no matter who tells it. I'm for justice, no matter who it's for or against.
Malcolm X

What waRD Wonders????

Why is it that men find it so hard to say "I love you" to another man unless he is gay?

How come Black actors always get robbed of Oscar awards? Like Sydney Poitier in "Guess who's coming to dinner- Denzel Washington in Malcolm X-Samuel Jackson in a time to Kill and so on....

How come so many people expect President Obama to create jobs out of thin air?

Why do people doubt the existence of Jehovah God?

Why are men and women so different- not just physically rather logically?

How come we can't talk about religion or politics at work?

Where do ducks go at night?

If the world is 85% water, why do we charge to get it in our homes?

How come I gotta wear my seat belt in my car, but no helmet or seat belt on my motorcycle or kids on a bus don't need seat belts but you do on an airplane?

How do you forgive someone who totally let you down= over and over again?

If marriage is so important how come we don't study it in High School before graduating?

Are cops the law, above the law or a representative of the law?

Is there a mother-n-law school somewhere that teaches you how to tripp???

What does Love have to do with it?

Why do opposites attract?

Why are hemorrhoids called "hemorrhoids" instead of "assteroids"?


If the black box flight recorder is never damaged during a plane crash, why isn't the whole airplane made out of the stuff?

Instead of talking to your plants, if you yelled at them would they still grow, but only to be troubled and insecure?

I am Ward

Boyz 2 Men

I enjoy doing many things during my time off of work and one of them is the simple joy of kicking it with my nephews. I like to think that we learn so much from each other, some negatives but mostly positives. We may kick the round ball on the court or we my pontificate about the curiosities of life and how to get in where we fit in. Other times we may just swang the golf clubs on the greenz and simply say nothing at all.
Well this particular time we talked about being an adult in a troubled world. Ya know the expectations, wants and why it is what it isn't! Seems like my nephews have had a really good life and really have not had to hustle it up like many, but they still are really great young men. Typical- in the sense of not having the greatest of grades in school, not really landing that great paying job yet or having that killer apartment that is to die for, but they still reaching out for it!
I find that growing from Boyz 2 Men can be a pain or that is what New Edition said, because your body looks like a grown man, you are viewed as such from the general public's perspective, but you still don't have all the answers or know how to play the game of life. I tend to think the influence of the family is the catalyst of a successful transformation, but it doesn't always go down like that, or does it?
The simple truth is this. There is always 3 sides to every story. Your side, their side and of course, the truth. Parents often do (or supposedly) the very best with what they have to work with 4 the child. This may include 4-going some wants for self to ensure the kids are well taken care of. I know that I want to go to Hawaii and Africa 1 day, but not if it means my kids won't be able to get some new clothes, that needed toy or whatever. The parent is well aware of these sacrifices but the kids don't always see this behind the scene activity and may occasionally be disrespectful or show a lack of appreciation. What is a parent to do? Perhaps not give them money, kick them out the house or shun them until they act right? The Bible says at Proverbs 22v6....well you look it up and find the best possible solution to that dilemma ya dang self sucka.
I personally think the parents don't have 2 spoon feed a child to help him be successful, but I do think some creative methods must be tried, because usually there are no two kids who are exactly alike. What works 4 one may not work for the others.

Looking back over my life, I would say the change from being a Boy to a Man is based off this simple principle. Doing for self! I say this because most people do their best when they have no other option but success. You know the saying, having your back against the wall. For example, if getting my education is the only way out of the ghetto, I have no other choice but to give it 100% until it is accompolished. Anything less--- means I stay where I am and that's no bueno Lucy! I once saw a football team come from behind in score with 12 minutes left to play. Oh, did I mention that team over came a 35 point deficit? Imagine the results if that team would have lied down and just gave up. Obstacles are usually barriers in your way of success that require you to use skills that you didn't know you had!

So if the young people grow up with a great life, then when do they have the need to make it do or die? I am not condoning that someone needs to leave the kids out in the cold, but I am saying that we have to, as parents, make sure we are teaching the value of dollar and the importance of doing for self. I was told by friends that I am too difficult on my kids, because they have been cleaning and cooking for years. If something happens to me, I am confident that they know how to be self sufficient until I can get to them.
Being a man who handles is business is one of the most important jobs one can do because its the beginner leadership position. If a man can't lead his self or family then how can he progress to other positions of responsibility? So this week, I like to think that I learned that spending time with your kids and talking to them as well as listening to them is critical their future. Communication is the life blood of any relationship and before you can help others you must know how to get what you need or want 1st.
Look at the Asian cultures, they are known for encouraging their kids to be successful at school and that points is clear by the outcomes. So if your kids turn out as model citizens, I assure you that you fought the good fight and did as you were suppose to. If it turned out the other way, you may do well to look in the mirror and ask your self "Do you think you did all you were suppose to" "What would your child say about your parenting skills" "What can I do now".
I believe we are all accountable for our actions, but who can follow when no one ever lead? Take the silver spoon out of the mouths and place an arm around the should and some Wardz Words of WisDumbbb in their ears, because children are the future, and your kids who are boyz, which may never evolve into men scare me-lol!


eye AM warD........