O.k. another week has come and gone and I don't know of any new celebrities dying, so I guess that is a good thing for some fans. I did manage to take in some of the Expo activities and look at some half million dollar homes up North. When to Walmart and bought a tiny grill (took 9 hours to assemble) didn't like it, took it back and got a nice one. Now I am dangerous!! Over all I had a pretty productive last week. But you know I had to reflect on my relationships thoughtz.
I realized that men need 4 things from is woman for yall thang to work out. 1st he needs her love. When a man has the love of a good woman, he won't mind or hesitate to get up in the middle of he night to check the bump in the dark or hunt down that big little mouse that is got his woman scared! He knows he is first in her world and he relishes in that glow of love. 2ndly, he needs her loyalty. He has to know that she only has eyes for him. When he calls she picks up or calls back as soon as she sees that missed call from him. She has no reason to lie to him or play games, because she is compliment and loves her role in his life. 3rd, he needs his woman to keep her self looking right. He knows her weight may fluctuate and he is cool with that. He just don't want her rolling up in the spot where he is kicking it with the fellas and she is looking like she could relieve the scare crow in the corn field! She knows he thinks she is madd sexy in sweat pants and hair pulled back and he MAC lip gloss. Finally, he needs intimacy from his woman. If a woman neglects him here, he will be cool with it because he knows many other woman other there will appreciate him in ways she may never know. Its really a protection. My advice--rape that sucka when he wakes up, when he gets home from work or when he looks at you. Trust me, when you ain't around-the last thing he will want is another woman-lol!
They say relationships are hard work, but I say hard work is good for you. From this writers perspective, women have many expectations of their men and then can check off their lists what they can settle or live w/o from the list. Men have so few requests that when any thing is missing he has a serious choice to make. Either talk to her about her deficiencies and roll the dice of love and hope she changes or fill the void with another lover who understands him better.
I am ward.....
2 comments:
do you have loyalty for your woman?
My woman wouldn't have 2 ask me that question- so why would you-lol!
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