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A 26-year-old police constable is in a critical condition after he accidentally hanged himself at his residence in suburban Bhandup this afternoon, while demonstrating to his wife how criminals are hanged, police said.
According to police, the constable, identified as Govind Balaji Devde, attached to Local Arms division of Mumbai police, was showing how a noose is prepared and death row convicts are hanged.
The incident took place around 4:30 pm, after Govind returned home from work at around 3.30 pm.

"After coming home, his wife told him that due to incessant rains the washed clothes were not drying up. She asked him to tie a string inside the house in order to dry the clothes. After fixing a clothesline, Govind took a sari and began to prepare noose," a police officer said.
"In order to demonstrate to his wife how a person is hanged, Govind put the noose around his neck. It was at that time the stool on which he was standing slipped and he started struggling for life. He remained in suspended position for some time," he said.
Govind's panic-stricken wife raised an alarm and called her neighbours for help, who took him down after cutting the 'noose'. He was rushed to a nearby hospital.
According to police, he is in a critical condition and is undergoing treatment.
Further investigation is on.

I am WarD......

Ward wonders if its ever o.k. for a woman to ask a man to marry her?

 According to 1 study I recently reviewed, it says that a woman should never ask a dude to marry her because it makes her appear as desperate or may give the guy a reason for an argument years down the road. "If you hadn't asked me to marry you, we wouldn't be miserable now"  (for example). But I would think in 2016, women have come a long way since the dark ages of being chained to the a kitchen sink while being pregnant-Right?????
Perhaps its just a tradition that some just don't want to break or maybe Jehovah wanted the man to find the woman and cherish her as his prized possession? ( I do like that one but I think the woman can still ask the dude).
Anywho, here are some reasons I think dudes may unknowingly make the woman want to ask him for marriage.......
1. Fear of Divorce- With the divorce rate around 60%, who wants to get set up for the big let down. Some men may fell if it ain't broke don't fix it. The best way to avoid a divorce is to avoid the vows. May have nothing to do with the chick, rather it is fear of the unknown.
2. Don't want kids- Men are short term planners and don't want kids until they are ready for the slow down pace of diaper changes and soccer games. When a dude says he doesn't want kids right now, trust me....he means in about 5 -10 years. Often times when a male is tricked in to parent hood ( y'all know what I mean) it usually ends poorly!
3. Fear of things changing. I can't tell you how many times men at the barber shop complain of women who flipped the script once the rang was in place. Men foolishly get married thinking the woman of his dreams will always remain that same sweet innocent chick he fell so deeply in love with-lol. Women tend to think they can get married and change the dude into her definition of perfection with sugar on top. both are wrong, because every 7 years most people change their view and perspective on life due to experience. Its call growth people. Either you grow together or apart, but growth will arrive like new born baby after 9 months in the bubble!
4. CEO Christian. He only remembers the creator on Christmas and Easter only and that is when he may try and find a church! We must remember that marriage is an institution designed by Jehovah God, to protect the union of said couple- with a commitment of love and security. If the guy doesn't know God, he is open to his own interpretation of what a relationship should look like. He can say "God knows my heart and he knows I love you, so we don't need no piece of paper to show we love each other". But doesn't God's word say to follow local customs to show others of your status.....hummmmm? Who is right, God or Man?

At the end of the day, a person has to choose what path he/she will take because "Wisdom is vindicated but its results, said Jesus (Luke 7:35). If a woman want to marry that guy and they living like they are married, I don't see nothing wrong with popping the question because you get your answer if he says yes or no-right?. Marriage will test couples in ways they both may not expect but if you found your soul mate, then the ride is worth any displeasure that comes with. I feel that some women may feel that fear of rejection (men are use to and expect rejection) because they don't want to walk away if he says "No" and don't feel comfortable that others know it was her who asked his hand?
**(I wonder how Lesbians handle this complex issue)

I am Ward.....