Marriage is one of the biggest dedications a person can make in his or her lifetime. You want to be sure that this newly formed union will be a success, but as we all know there are no guarantees in life and most used cars-lol!
Would it be wrong to change my mind at the last possible minute? I am talking right up there at the alter. Ya know what I mean, you standing there in front of the crowd in your black Armani Tux and she got on the $10,000 Vera Wang dress (Hood Perspective: You standing there in your t-shirt that looks like a tux shirt and Levi's shorts and flip flops and she has on an over sized T-shirt and yall standing in the White Castle parking lot)and you suddenly feel like this person you are set to marry is not the right person for you or you are not the right one 4 them. Panic sets in and your feet start in motion, (in my Keanu Reeve voice: What do you do? What do you do?)
Studies show that some men take to flight, get to running, kick rocks man, flee like David in the Bible, leave the woman at the Alter cuz she Crazy?
Should you go through with this union or do what your inner child is screaming to ya. Lets weigh our options. If you go through with it, you may be miserable all your married life and what ever was the root cause of your doubt will always be there. If you leave then you lost everything and free to do anything!
I guess it comes down to a personal choice but I would rather leave or post pone until I felt sure or confident of my decision! We have a high divorce in this country for a reason. God doesn't choose our marriage mates for us, but he does tell us how we should conduct our actions and what we should look for in a mate. But hey, who am I?
I am Ward........
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The family is one of nature's masterpieces.
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