Women always have a string of complaints against their male partners & especially their husbands on a range of things, from his kids to forgetting the day they first drank water together. Sure, men are borderline idiotic at times, but women can and really do get on our last good nerves.

For women who want to know which of their habits qualify as annoying, here’s a list:

1. Her habit of asking his opinion on how she looks every time she wears a new dress or while going out with him on a date. Us poor men are caught in a trap because no matter what we say, she’s not going to believe it.
2. Her habit of constantly talking and especially telling him too much about her friends, their secrets, their partners and what great couples they are. Men find this annoying because we don’t have anything to do with these secrets about her friends. We also know they talk about us to them. If a dog will bring a bone, he surely will take a bone when he leaves.....
 3. Men usually hate it when a woman refuses to give any suggestion even when asked for one, such as for ordering food or picking a tv show to watch but don’t hesitate to criticize us if something isn't right, and quick to say " I was gonna say that", but somehow never did say it until after the fact!
4. It’s very annoying when women stay quiet and deny anything’s wrong when they’re upset. They somehow expect the men to read their minds and understand what the reason behind their bad mood is. I called this passive aggressive behaviors.
5. No one likes to be compared to their partner’s ex. But women usually do this, especially when they’re excited or upset about a similar situation they may have encountered in their previous relationship. I don't think they are always aware that they even do this but it slips out sometimes.
6. Women tend to be or act suspicious about their partner’s actions. It could be for something as simple as a night out with friends or a lunch with a female colleague, but they can't tell when the janitor at work is hitting on them. Its really a form of a double standard at its worst!!!!
7. Having kids from a previous relationship is very hard when the woman is insecure or jealous of the past. A man who loves his kids won't feel you love him if you reject his kids. Even God feels that way about Jesus....
8. Women can't answer yes or no questions with a yes or no response. No need to expound.
9. If a man doesn't feel respected by his woman, why does he need her on his team. Life can disrespect him daily and he doesn't have to take care of it when it is sick. Women will get all up in a dudes face but won't say nothing to her boss at work for treating her like crap (SMH)...

*Shout to all the women who know their roles and have a happy life and loving relationships.
I am WarD....

Just shut up and let her be right.................said no man!

    I recalled some of the silly arguments that people have told me about. I personally don't think couples should ever have to argue with each other. I mean how many times do employees argue with their bosses? And for those who do fight with their bosses.......well we all know how well that turns out. Call me old school, but I believe that good old communication seasoned with love can go a lot further than using that mouth piece for bad. They say if you want to go fast--Go alone but if you want to go further--take others with you.
     Read some of the fights below and think how fortunate you are that this ain't you!

• "I basically had a temper tantrum because I burned grilled cheese sandwiches and he was trying to give me advice and be helpful. I slammed the spatula down and told him that he could do it himself and went to my room to pout!" - Beth H.
•  "Married one month, together 22 years and still fighting over who gets to pee first when we wake up together. Tried going together but too messy." - Ron F. 
•  "Who was going to get back out of bed to turn the light off. We are both stubborn so we slept all night with the light on." - Raechelle A.
•  "When I was pregnant I cried because he made tater tots for dinner and I didn't like them. Fought about it for two days." - Stephanie H.
•  "How to spend hypothetical lottery winnings." - Shannon G.
•   "One day he came home from work and I was already asleep. He went to cuddle me facing each other. I told him he was stealing my air and went to turn over. Lo and behold, we had a fight about cuddling." - Bek P.
•  "On our honeymoon we had this big discussion about whether or not penguins laid eggs. This was before smartphones and I was thinking, 'Omg, this idiot won't agree with me.'" - Karri R.
•  "What to watch on Netflix. Nightly argument." - Tess H.
•   "We argued about something that we both agreed on because we both couldn't understand each other's sentences." - Shonda W.*

 "Coat check tickets. My husband could not find them at the end of snowy night at a night club. I asked him if they were in his jeans pocket. He snapped 'Of course, I already checked there!' We took separate cabs and arrived at our home at the same time, me shivering without my coat, Paul with my coat in his hands. 'Where were the tickets?' I asked. Yep, they were in his jeans pocket." - Kierra .

Love is something that is hard to find and easy to loose, yet millions get married and divorced yearly. Just image how life would be if we all learned how to effectively communicate and know our roles in relationships.
I am WarD........

The future of the past.......

Remembering our last kiss

Pillow soft against my lips

The memory so elusive

Fading away like mist

 

The flutter of my heart beat

Underneath my collarbone

Anticipation a must

Your brown eyes shone

The moonlight caught our whispers

In the air

we softly moaned

Beneath your gentle touch

It always felt like home

 

My last kiss will last forever

Deeply treasured in my heart

I think of it whenever

I lay alone in the dark

 

-Monica Simone / Author esq

Buyer Beware of the Flim Flam Scam Man

I don't know where to start with this entry but let us just begin anyway. Recently, I was in the market for a different car (something with no car payments) that I could drive during the winter months. My plan included flipping the SUV during tax time. Well, looking at Craigslist I found a car that met my needs. I attempted to reach the seller several times with no luck. I asked my daughter to leave a message just to see and within 4 minutes, the seller responded back to her. I thought that was odd to respond to her so quickly and not my 12 attempts, but I later found out that he only sales to college students and women. Apparently, I was trying to reach this guy thru offer-up(he had the suv on several sights), which shows your photo.
Nevertheless, I corresponded to the seller from my daughters account for two days. We discussed the ins and outs of the vehicle and he assured me that the unit was road worthy and absolutely issue free. I was ready to buy and agreed to travel to Cincinnati from Indianapolis to make the purchase. Ironically, half way there, I received a text message that we have to reschedule the exchange because the car was stalling out but he could have the needed part repaired in two days. I was definitely upset that he waited until I was one hour into this drive and he sensed it. He actually agreed to meet me half way on the next trip.
I agreed and told him that I would bring someone with me (Shonda) and he was ok with that. So car seller (lets just call him Chet) finally met and Shonda and me, half way between Indianapolis and Cincinnati and he spoke strictly to her as if I wasn't there. I won't go into detail about why he was an hour and 20 minutes late. The first thing he said to us was, I only sale to college students and women because those are the people who really need a good quality car. So we walked to the SUV and quickly noticed the SUV was nothing like the ad mentioned. The tires were smoother than a baby birds backside, the strong odor of cigarette smoke almost knocked me out. He had ashes all over the dash and floor! He said the sunroof doesn't open but can be fixed for cheap. Next he said the back up camera was damaged but nobody really needs that anyway. And what about the truck being clean inside and out? He had so many bottles in the truck area (oil containers, empty anti-freeze jugs, old brakes, McDonald bags, dog food and much more. It was actually quite gross and he stood by his statement that the SUV was clean. I looked under the hood and and smelled rotten egg like smells mixed with burning motor oil. This was something very bad and also the reason he was so late arriving for the meeting. The SUV was over heating and he was trying to play me but I peeped game real quick and knew they was a no go, but I played along for GP. Chet went on to have an solution for every problem that I mentioned as he was more irritated that a man was talking to him instead of an unsuspecting woman college student. He just wanted to make this money and move on.
I feel the icing on the cake occurred when he said he didn't have the title but we should just pay him and he will get the title to us after he pays the guy off that he owes money!!!! I was like oh hecky knoll. We decided it wasn't a good fit and explained that we were about to Be OUT like Harriet Tubman was at the window! Chet said he understood and we left.
No sooner than we were down the street, Chet texted a 14 page message talking about how we wasted his #$@& time and how we was picky over damaged or non working features. He was pretty nasty with his language. It really helped me to see how anyone can place an add for something to sale and hope you are a sucker. I image that this guy has been getting over on people for years and was so upset when it didn't go well with us. I think if he had a gun he would robbed me.
Its the world that we live in. Another day another sucka.
*Update= I purchased another black Murano from a guy in town. It needed a little work and has been running great.
I am WarD..........