Encouragement

Breathe today because who knows what tomorrow has to bring-lol!
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Why do they say ....."Ain't no good men in Indiana"?

I honestly can't say that I have understood why so many single people have this notion that there are no good men or women in Indiana. I mean when you really think about it, aren't we all unique individuals? Will my location dictate how I will date? I think not! From my perspective, preparation is what is missing from the dating game. To think that you can just go out the club and meet the perfect person who will suddenly change and get on some instant act right because you are obviously the perfect mate for them too! PAUSE!!! Let us consider the following advice if you want to have a great relationship.
The BIG 6.....
*write down what you want to have in your relationship
*what will it take for you to be satisfied with your new lover?
*if you were in a good spot with your future mate right now...what would you be judging that off of?ou doing to mess up your relationship? (we all are guilty of this at some pt)
*what do U want for your relationship and what are you willing 2 do 2 get there?
*what way do you want to compliment your mate?
*what are you needs and what do you think your future mates needs could possibly be?

(((The woman tends to find her new man irresistible when he does this)))
a). Learns to create an environment of affection that clearly and repeatedly expresses his love 4 her.
b). Sets aside time every day just to talk to her with undivided attention and interest.
c). is completely honest and open with her.
d). provides financial support 4 her,
e). he is able to deal with her moods and love her anyway.

{{{The man tends to find his woman irresistible when she does this}}}
a). Leans to join him in a healthy sexual relationship they both find satisfying
b). becomes his favorite recreational companion. ( love what he loves)
c). maintains overall appearance in a way that he finds physically attractive. (hair,nails and out fit on point-Act like you give a....never-mind)
d). manages household responsibilities well.....(please re-read if you lazy)
e). understands and appreciates him more than anyone else in the world!

Now with that being said, I think no matter where you live at, these simple rules can work. Perhaps it would behoove us better if we looked deep inside and wonder if we are part of the solution or part of the problem of not getting this dating thing right? Too many times we judge potential partners by comparing them with others, rather than by measuring them against a well consider ideal(Church)
*(please note that if you get that crazy one- I don't care what you do- Krazy is Krazy)

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Love..........a Ward perSPECTive

Love is powerful thang! Makes some go crazy. Makes some go door to door. Makes some just break up to make up. It ain't that heavy when you really think about it.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. -

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